Do you like yourself?

It really amazes me, how many people complain about personal aspects of their own lives like it is really somebody else's problem.  If you don't like yourself, how can anyone else like you as well?  Ask yourself one question...Do you like yourself?  I am not talking about how much you may or may not weigh.  Nor am I talking about if you are ugly, butt ugly, fugly or beautiful.  I am talking about you as a person.

Everyone has something about themselves that they do not like, but they decide that they can't change that aspect of themselves so they make everyone else hear their pathetic excuses. And God help you if you don't feel sorry for that person's issue with themselves.  Then you are put through comment after comment, attack after attack because they want to bring you down to their level.

You know the old saying, "never stoop to someone else's level"...I think that is wrong.  I have no problem going down to someone else's level, because unlike them...I can go back up to my original level in a heartbeat.  I have no problem getting down and dirty when I have to make someone understand that I really don't give a damn about their pity party invitations.  If you want to sit and feel sorry for yourself, then do it and leave the rest of us alone.

Your problems are exactly that...YOURS!  Your problems are like water on a ducks back...they just roll right off of me and I keep moving forward.  If you don't like what I just said, so what, not my problem.

Come on people, pick yourself up, put one foot in front of the other and move on...or at least move on to someone that gives a damn about your self-pity.  This might sound heartless, but it is called "tough-love".

None of this is directed and any one person in my life.  I just felt like putting it out there.  So if you think I am talking to you directly...remember the duck, and don't bring your complaint to me.  I don't have a complaint department, so needless to say...complain to someone else.  If you can't find someone else, I can go to the 99 cent store and get you a mirror...because that person in the mirror might listen...but I seriously doubt it!